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March/April 1997
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Reeve

[E] Due to his high profile, it's no surprise that much ink is devoted to Christopher Reeve. Our world has collided with that of an A-list celebrity in a way that we could never have anticipated, so it is inevitable that we react to him in the Rag, Mouth, Accent, and all of our other usual forums.

Readers themselves may have witnessed or experienced firsthand the myriad thoughts and emotions in the two or three years immediately following such a massively imposed change as is caused by a spinal cord injury. In the clinical model, there are textbook pages written about a pattern of denial, anger, and depression. Christopher Reeve is, so far, the most powerful, influential person to go through this experience. All his talk of The Cure is nothing new; convert gimps have been singing this tune for years. His use of this crap is now drawing the attention it craves because he's the one saying it. We're all horrified because he can undermine the life work of hundreds of advocates in just one speech.

I would also submit to all reading this that you may believe, as I do, that some greedy goody-two-shoes got to him early, took advantage of his vulnerable emotional state, and is using his celebrity for financial gain at our expense. He has been set up. He is being used. I'd bet his time is carefully controlled so that none of us could get near him.

Consider the power he has. We have all seen it. Imagine that one day he wakes up and smells the coffee. When he realizes just how badly his time is being wasted, how rich people are getting from his hard work, that all his effort is going for snake oil, then we can turn him over to our side of the Force. But by then will it be too late to repair the damage? We must break through to him somehow. He must learn how many of us there are. He must be made to see all of us. He must be jolted, grabbed, embraced, and fully accepted by our movement so that he can allow himself to be given over to it. He must be told just how angry he is making us all now, and how much permanent damage he is doing to human rights. If he knows this, if we ask him, maybe he will change. One thing's for certain: he won't change as long as we keep our anger to ourselves.

Rumor has it that the postmaster in Pound Ridge, NY, will forward mail indiscriminately addressed to Mr. Reeve. I want him to read these words here, juxtaposed with everybody else's. I want him to know how much homework he has to do before we let him dance in our troop, but dance we can make him when he joins. So he'd better crack a book. Starting with this next Ragged Edge. If people want to contribute to a subscription fund, then we can give him our cure. I'm sending a dollar by snail mail.

Michael Volkman
Albany, NY

The zipcode for Pound Ridge, NY is 10576. --ed.

We'll see ...

[E] I know a lot of Crips think Reeve is a good role model, the old "any awareness is better than none at all." I was hopeful at first figuring since he'd sorta been into progressive politics, maybe he'd get it. Watching the boy, though, I've come to view him as one helluva savvy politician, and like most politicians he's self-serving, delivering the message the folks with bucks want to hear. I think Reeve got it real fast that he ain't gonna be paid 50-100 thousand bucks a pop to rag on about the inequities and prejudices within society.

He delivers the nice, comfy-cozy "the only good cripple is a cured cripple, I'm gonna walk again" story. He's SO NICE, not threatening, non- confrontational, clean, handsome in that good boy way. He is, my god, the perfect cripple.

In the meantime, his audiences can feel all warm and fuzzy while they write those checks and they can go right back to their privileged lives congratulating themselves on how wonderful they are to help the handicapped. He challenges no one to assume any responsibility for doing anything to change things. No wonder he's such a popular boy. Time, however, and no cure, no walkie and we'll see, we'll see.

Cheryl M. Wade
Berkeley, CA


Poem praise

Lydia P. Priest's poem, Aphasiac's Plea, is a mirror to me and eloquently described. Thank you for it.

John Haberlin
Fairfax, VA


Get involved

God didn't create any throw-away people. Each of us is important and has a purpose to serve.

No matter how discouraging things become, we should not get out of our situation by suicide. The book Life After Life by Raymond Moody chronicles near-death experiences; those which were the result of suicide attempts reveal a retention of, rather than an escape from, a problem. Carrying these burdens to the end of a normal lifespan is far less daunting than the prospect of having to carry them through eternity. (Who knows if such is so? But who has the courage to find out?)

No one doctor knows everything. Find specialists if you need. When dealing with medical people, remember who's paying for the services being rendered: you! Even if insurance is paying, they have an obligation to give you your money's worth.

Sex with yourself or your lover will necessitate adjustment; this will become a new area for discovery for you and your partner. It is imperative that one knows oneself before trying to share such details with someone else. What works? What doesn't? What can be substituted?

Get involved: continue to vote; volunteer; get involved with politics! Tell your public officials what you want them to do! Don't mince words! What can they do to you that's worse than what's already happened to you? Maybe now you'll have the time to analyze what previously you could only gloss over. And when you develop a solution, tell someone!

Frank Jenkins
Akron, Ohio


Euthanasia at home

[E] We don't have to go to Holland for euthanasia. The Maryland Abortion Rights Law permits abortion up to viability (usually considered 6th month); however, if the fetus is "believed" to have a significant disability (not defined) then abortion is permitted up to term! Regardless of one's position on abortion this is an obvious comment on the value of our lives.

Bob Reuter
Baltimore


Opinion forum wanted

[E] I wish we had a forum in the disability community where differing opinions could be freely shared and discussed. I feel this is lacking in the few publications I'm able to read. Too often we take strong positions with little discussion and that bothers me. Maybe there's such a possibility with the Ragged Edge?

Marj Schneider
Minneapolis


Remember the last time?

I recently heard at the advisory council to the Missouri Dept. of Mental Health that some planned welfare reform includes making people on SSI get re- examined by a doctor for SSI eligibility every three months. As usual, the red tape is going to cost more money than it's going to save, not to mention the anxiety it's going to cause SSI recipients. Remember the last SSI purge? Many disabled people hit the streets. Most disabled people I know self-regulate pretty well. If we are capable of working even part-time and with reasonable accommodations -- and if anyone will hire us, we are working or preparing to work.

Lila Leland
Columbia, MO


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